It's not punishment. It's the natural consequence of being home. They're making more mess, so they're going to have to clean up more. But they do the same at school. They clear their place at lunch, they clean up their space in their class, they have to clean out their locker periodically, and put things away between activities. We have morning chores (yes some barn chores, but feeding the dog, emptying the dishwasher, and making breakfast are on there too), after meal clean up, and 4:00 chores (these are picking up, sweeping, starting dinner, etc.). Put on some music...even the youngest one can help. My 18 month old loves to "put away" silverware and my 5 year old can "kind of" sweep the floor.
9. Enjoy the validity of the older ones helping the younger ones. You don't have to answer every question. An older sibling can read directions to a younger one while you read with someone else...or while you are making lunch. It's like study buddies.
10. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ENTERTAIN THEM! The first few days might be a little rough with some complaints of boredom (or if you're entertaining them, you're going to be exhausted), but believe me, boredom is the Mother of creativity.
You've got this. God gave your kids to you on purpose. It wasn't an accident. Yes, this is different and likely temporary, but it's going to be more than just okay. It's a gift of time and proximity and you can make it amazing!
Editor's Note: Originally published April 2020.
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